Articles from April 2010 ↓

Unconditional Love versus Sexual Desire

Freedom ... painting by John Rocheleau

Does sexual desire interfere with your ability to love someone unconditionally?

For some reason, the majority of emails I receive are about relationship issues, and the concept of unconditional love. It seems that many people have difficulty loving unconditionally within a sexual relationship. Several readers have recently asked for my thoughts on reconciling the two.

Because of this confluence of concern arriving in my Inbox, I’ve decided to post one of my responses here. Perhaps it can serve as food for thought to others who question the compatibility of unconditional love with sexual relations. So here is an extract from a recent letter, and my response:

This letter (in brief) comes from Brad in New Hampshire. Continue reading →