Comments on: In True Love We Trust and Give Space http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html Thoughts on Life Love and Awareness Tue, 31 Jan 2012 23:52:42 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: John Rocheleau http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html/comment-page-1#comment-6191 John Rocheleau Tue, 31 Jan 2012 23:52:42 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html#comment-6191 <strong>Hey Mick,</strong> If your friends are trying to break up your relationship, a few things you should do are: <ol> <li>Ask your friends why they think you should split up. Do they see something that you don't? If so, consider their viewpoint.</li> <li>If they are off base, then it's time to thank them for their concern and gently tell them to butt out. It would be a shame to lose friends over this, so try and communicate with them so that they understand.</li> <li>When you get this <em>friends interference</em> thing sorted out, your relationship will be on firmer, smoother ground (assuming you decide to remain in it).You can then try to work on that feeling of possessiveness.</li> </ol> It's tough to cope with a bunch of things at once Mick, so sort out the immediate problem of your friend's interference, then work to build your relationship. It takes time to build trust and be able to give space, but working on it together over time is how you develop understanding and deeper love. Best wishes, John Hey Mick,

If your friends are trying to break up your relationship, a few things you should do are:

  1. Ask your friends why they think you should split up. Do they see something that you don’t? If so, consider their viewpoint.
  2. If they are off base, then it’s time to thank them for their concern and gently tell them to butt out. It would be a shame to lose friends over this, so try and communicate with them so that they understand.
  3. When you get this friends interference thing sorted out, your relationship will be on firmer, smoother ground (assuming you decide to remain in it).You can then try to work on that feeling of possessiveness.

It’s tough to cope with a bunch of things at once Mick, so sort out the immediate problem of your friend’s interference, then work to build your relationship. It takes time to build trust and be able to give space, but working on it together over time is how you develop understanding and deeper love.

Best wishes,
John

]]> By: mick http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html/comment-page-1#comment-6190 mick Tue, 31 Jan 2012 21:29:33 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html#comment-6190 what happens to pure love when friends interfere in your relationship and it all seams as they transpire to break up something thats growing? together we sucseed divided we fall ? me and my partner met through lies and deceite from dying relationships! i am possesive i admit but i love her when we are apart a peice of me is missing and i want to know she is ok ! any help greatly recieved thank you what happens to pure love when friends interfere in your relationship and it all seams as they transpire to break up something thats growing? together we sucseed divided we fall ? me and my partner met through lies and deceite from dying relationships! i am possesive i admit but i love her when we are apart a peice of me is missing and i want to know she is ok ! any help greatly recieved thank you

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]]> By: John Rocheleau http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html/comment-page-1#comment-5901 John Rocheleau Thu, 03 Sep 2009 19:24:29 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html#comment-5901 <strong>Hello Helen,</strong> I'm so glad to hear that it all worked out just as it should. Good for you for having the courage and faith to drop your fears. And you have a Son in the making. Well how cool is that? A big congratulations to you both. :-) John Hello Helen,

I’m so glad to hear that it all worked out just as it should. Good for you for having the courage and faith to drop your fears.

And you have a Son in the making. Well how cool is that? A big congratulations to you both.

:-)
John

]]> By: Helen http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html/comment-page-1#comment-5900 Helen Thu, 03 Sep 2009 01:28:49 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/in-true-love-we-trust-and-give-space.html#comment-5900 Hello John, I was reflecting over the last year when I returned to read your words once again. I thought you might be curious as to the outcome so far. I tried hard to put my fears aside and enjoy fully this relationship for what it is. What has manifested is truly wonderful. We are very happily together and expecting the birth of our child, a beautiful boy, in November. I have never conceived before, despite trying, so I really feel that somehow things are in harmony for us in the world (since I was NOT trying and still this momentous event occured!). I could not have dreamed for a better outcome and we are both growing together, sharing new experiences together and experiencing a profound and respectful love of the kind I had only ever dreamed of. Our families accept our relationship and have been loving and supportive and most of our friends are happy for us also. He is a wise and beautiful man, and somewhere in amongst all the pain of the past, I must have earned what I have now. He will be an amazing father and I am looking forward to our future adventures and challenges together. Yours in peaceful contentment, Helen. Hello John,

I was reflecting over the last year when I returned to read your words once again. I thought you might be curious as to the outcome so far.

I tried hard to put my fears aside and enjoy fully this relationship for what it is. What has manifested is truly wonderful. We are very happily together and expecting the birth of our child, a beautiful boy, in November. I have never conceived before, despite trying, so I really feel that somehow things are in harmony for us in the world (since I was NOT trying and still this momentous event occured!).

I could not have dreamed for a better outcome and we are both growing together, sharing new experiences together and experiencing a profound and respectful love of the kind I had only ever dreamed of. Our families accept our relationship and have been loving and supportive and most of our friends are happy for us also.

He is a wise and beautiful man, and somewhere in amongst all the pain of the past, I must have earned what I have now. He will be an amazing father and I am looking forward to our future adventures and challenges together.

Yours in peaceful contentment,

Helen.

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