Comments on: Save Your Marriage: Support the Best and Reject the Rest http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html Personal Development for Creatively Conscious People Wed, 14 Jul 2010 17:52:09 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: John R. http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-282 John R. Wed, 23 Jul 2008 02:49:44 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html#comment-282 Nathalie, Thanks for that. You totally "got" the concept I wanted to express. It's a simple concept, but it works dramatically (excuse the pun) :-) Nathalie,

Thanks for that. You totally “got” the concept I wanted to express. It’s a simple concept, but it works dramatically (excuse the pun) :-)

]]> By: Nathalie Lussier http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-281 Nathalie Lussier Wed, 23 Jul 2008 02:28:16 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html#comment-281 Wow, if I've ever read any better relationship advice, I can't remember when! I love the idea of not falling into the drama and feeding it with your attention. What you focus on expands and what you don't withers, I just never thought to apply it to relationships. Thanks and just, wow! :) Wow, if I’ve ever read any better relationship advice, I can’t remember when! I love the idea of not falling into the drama and feeding it with your attention. What you focus on expands and what you don’t withers, I just never thought to apply it to relationships.

Thanks and just, wow! :)

]]> By: Vered http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-245 Vered Sun, 20 Jul 2008 01:38:34 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html#comment-245 As of right now, my marriage doesn't require saving. :) But these are great tips. I especially like "support the best and reject the rest". As of right now, my marriage doesn’t require saving. :) But these are great tips. I especially like “support the best and reject the rest”.

]]> By: Avani-Mehta http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html/comment-page-1#comment-240 Avani-Mehta Sat, 19 Jul 2008 01:41:23 +0000 http://www.zen-moments.com/save-your-marriage.html#comment-240 One key point that has been left out is communication (Maybe that's intentional since it's obvious :) ) Communicating to partner about this situation can do wonders. Because then, some kind of mutual understanding can be reached, some strategies can be formed. I read somewhere about one such strategy - to shout timeout when you feel overwhelmed or controlled by your spouse. Give each other emotional space required to sort and relax. And then get back to the topic. One key point that has been left out is communication (Maybe that’s intentional since it’s obvious :) )

Communicating to partner about this situation can do wonders. Because then, some kind of mutual understanding can be reached, some strategies can be formed.

I read somewhere about one such strategy – to shout timeout when you feel overwhelmed or controlled by your spouse. Give each other emotional space required to sort and relax. And then get back to the topic.

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