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		<title>By: John Rocheleau</title>
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		<dc:creator>John Rocheleau</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 01:39:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;Hi Robin,&lt;/strong&gt;

When I implied that a person should be happy at their job, I meant that they should or at least should try to be happy at their job--whatever job they have--even cleaning toilets. We have choices regarding how we relate to our work. The majority of people can greatly improve their level of job satisfaction by changing their attitude before they consider changing their job. That is what point #8 is about. 

For a further look at both sides of this question of raising job satisfaction by either changing your attitude toward your work or finding new work, have a look at: &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zen-moments.com/is-your-job-a-highway-to-personal-development-or-despair.html&quot;&gt;Is Your Job a Highway to Personal Development or Despair?&lt;/a&gt;. 

And if you&#039;re in a people business--and who isn&#039;t really--here is an article on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.zen-moments.com/customer-relationship-management-job-satisfaction.html&quot;&gt;job satisfaction&lt;/a&gt; that deals with how to relate effectively with people in the workplace while also enjoying the process and deriving personal satisfaction at the end of the day.  

We have choices, and they are not all black and white. I have held all types of positions in my life, done all sorts of work that on the surface may not appear rewarding, but I have learned long ago that it is all about relationship; your relationship to yourself (how good do you feel about yourself?), to your workmates, to your customers, and to the &quot;stuff&quot;; the things that you do at work. We get to choose how we relate to these aspects of work--and that can change everything, even if you are still cleaning toilets; and I have cleaned a few in my time (someone has to, right?)

:-)
John</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Hi Robin,</strong></p>
<p>When I implied that a person should be happy at their job, I meant that they should or at least should try to be happy at their job&#8211;whatever job they have&#8211;even cleaning toilets. We have choices regarding how we relate to our work. The majority of people can greatly improve their level of job satisfaction by changing their attitude before they consider changing their job. That is what point #8 is about. </p>
<p>For a further look at both sides of this question of raising job satisfaction by either changing your attitude toward your work or finding new work, have a look at: <a href="http://www.zen-moments.com/is-your-job-a-highway-to-personal-development-or-despair.html">Is Your Job a Highway to Personal Development or Despair?</a>. </p>
<p>And if you&#8217;re in a people business&#8211;and who isn&#8217;t really&#8211;here is an article on <a href="http://www.zen-moments.com/customer-relationship-management-job-satisfaction.html">job satisfaction</a> that deals with how to relate effectively with people in the workplace while also enjoying the process and deriving personal satisfaction at the end of the day.  </p>
<p>We have choices, and they are not all black and white. I have held all types of positions in my life, done all sorts of work that on the surface may not appear rewarding, but I have learned long ago that it is all about relationship; your relationship to yourself (how good do you feel about yourself?), to your workmates, to your customers, and to the &#8220;stuff&#8221;; the things that you do at work. We get to choose how we relate to these aspects of work&#8211;and that can change everything, even if you are still cleaning toilets; and I have cleaned a few in my time (someone has to, right?)<br />
 <img src='http://www.zen-moments.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
John</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Feb 2010 23:04:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>With double-digit unemployment (and expected to get worse) it shouldn&#039;t matter if you hate the job you have, or not.  YOU HAVE A JOB.  I don&#039;t like my job, but I&#039;m putting food on the table and medicine in the cabinet.  So no, you DO NOT have to be happy at your job, and yes it will lead more to the same - food on the table, gas in the tank, medicine in the cabinet.  Most people don&#039;t like their jobs, but they pay the bills.  We don&#039;t all have the luxury of chasing after a job we love, who would clean the toilets otherwise?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With double-digit unemployment (and expected to get worse) it shouldn&#8217;t matter if you hate the job you have, or not.  YOU HAVE A JOB.  I don&#8217;t like my job, but I&#8217;m putting food on the table and medicine in the cabinet.  So no, you DO NOT have to be happy at your job, and yes it will lead more to the same &#8211; food on the table, gas in the tank, medicine in the cabinet.  Most people don&#8217;t like their jobs, but they pay the bills.  We don&#8217;t all have the luxury of chasing after a job we love, who would clean the toilets otherwise?</p>
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		<title>By: Finding Happiness</title>
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		<dc:creator>Finding Happiness</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 11:50:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ha ha.. Guilty of pretty much everything in that list, at one time or another! Wait a second.. what am I saying? It may have been a slip of tongue. Not my fault at all :)
.-= Finding Happiness´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.self-improvement-advice.org/motivational-songs.html&quot;&gt;Motivational Songs, TOP 15 Inspiring Songs, Motivational Song Lyrics&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ha ha.. Guilty of pretty much everything in that list, at one time or another! Wait a second.. what am I saying? It may have been a slip of tongue. Not my fault at all <img src='http://www.zen-moments.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<span class="cluv"> Finding Happiness´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.self-improvement-advice.org/motivational-songs.html">Motivational Songs, TOP 15 Inspiring Songs, Motivational Song Lyrics</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.zen-moments.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Motivation &#38; Inspiration Blogger</title>
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		<dc:creator>Motivation &#38; Inspiration Blogger</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Feb 2010 09:29:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice article! I think the vast majority of people live in moderate delusion!

Only a minority probably even realize it at all. Very interested in reading more!
.-= Motivation &amp; Inspiration Blogger´s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://get-inspired-today.blogspot.com/2010/02/added-joyce-meyer-quote-page.html&quot;&gt;Added a Joyce Meyer Quote page&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice article! I think the vast majority of people live in moderate delusion!</p>
<p>Only a minority probably even realize it at all. Very interested in reading more!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Motivation &amp; Inspiration Blogger´s last blog ..<a href="http://get-inspired-today.blogspot.com/2010/02/added-joyce-meyer-quote-page.html">Added a Joyce Meyer Quote page</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.zen-moments.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Ben King</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ben King</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Dec 2009 09:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>True satisfaction comes from within.  I have recently taken up meditation and it allows you to appreciate and better understand what you have, and less inclined to seek gratification in less important things...!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>True satisfaction comes from within.  I have recently taken up meditation and it allows you to appreciate and better understand what you have, and less inclined to seek gratification in less important things&#8230;!</p>
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